The Internet has truly become an integral aspect of society. We use it every day, from searching for the nearest Starbucks to applying for law school. One thing that has become particularly popular among its younger users is “Internet slang,” also known as acronyms. These shorthand phrases, used globally by teens both online and while texting, are generally just a simpler way of writing things out. However, there is a dark side of which all parents should be aware.
Acronyms have become much more complex and teens are now using them for just about anything. Instead of the usual “LOL” (Laughing Out Loud) and “OMG” (Oh My God), there are now phrases like “WTTP” (Want To Trade Pictures?). This shift is of growing concern for parents everywhere. It is not to say that parents now need to be “helicopter parents,” overly protective and critical of their children’s every move, but these acronyms are something worth knowing.
Before diving right into the intricate world of acronyms, here is a list of some of the basic Internet 101 phrases:
- BRB- Be Right Back
- GR8- Great
- ILY- I Love You
- JK- Just Kidding
- POV- Point of View
- IDK- I Don’t Know
- TMI- Too Much Information
- TTYL- Talk To You Later
- G2G/GTG- Got To Go
- THX/TY- Thanks/Thank You
- NP- No Problem
- BFF- Best Friends Forever
- IDC- I Don’t Care
- LYLAS- Love You Like A Sister
- NVM- Never mind
- MYT- Meet You There
- NBD- No Big Deal
- BAE- Babe/Before Anyone Else
- HMU- Hit Me Up
- ATM- At The Moment
Now, after reading the following lists, you will be more cautious about what your teen is talking about and to whom they are talking.
Some acronyms deal with risky decisions:
- 420- Marijuana
- DOC- Drug Of Choice
- CICYHW- Can I Copy Your Homework?
- TWD- Texting While Driving
- WTPA- Where’s The Party At?
And others have sexual connotations:
- IWSN- I Want Sex Now
- 53X- Sex
- MIRL- Meet In Real Life
- TDTM- Talk Dirty To Me
- 8- Oral Sex
- IPN- I’m posting naked
- GYPO- Get Your Pants Off
- CU46- See You For Sex
- GNOC- Get Naked On Camera
- NSFW- Not Safe For Work
- ASL- (What is your) Age, Sex, Location?
- FWB- Friends With Benefits
There are even a number of acronyms regarding parents:
- PIR- Parent In Room
- 9- Parent Watching
- 99- Parenting Gone
- POS- Parent Over Shoulder
- 303- Mom
These red flags are just a few of many. These acronyms are the top of a very slippery slope that have the possibility to lead to potential harms, including sexting, risky sexual behaviors, stalking, and even rape. If you notice your children or any of their friends using any unusual language, including examples from above, be aware and talk to them about it. Although these conversations may be hard and awkward, they are necessary and they do help to protect and inform children.
Works Cited:
http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/30-trendy-internet-acronyms-slang-need-know-fit/
http://www.netlingo.com/top50/popular-text-terms.php
http://coolmomtech.com/2014/07/texting-acronyms-and-phrases-parents-should-know/
http://www.cnn.com/2014/12/08/living/internet-acronyms-every-parent-should-know/