WEBINAR “Out of Isolation: The Role of Healing Community in the Battle Against Pornography”

When: November 1, 2016 / 12:00 pm ET

Location: Watch Online Here

Tray had been married for 11 years when his secret struggle with pornography and sexual sin ripped his family apart. After 6 years of divorce, God brought about a miraculous restoration and he reconciled and remarried his ex-wife Melody. Discovering that true healing is found on the other side of pain, Tray has a passion to help men experience God’s grace in brokenness and to learn to connect deeply with others in authentic community.

Through Undone Redone, his ministry and weekly podcast, Tray and Melody provide life and marriage coaching, intensives, parenting solutions, and help churches create Christ-centered recovery groups. Tray contributes regularly to LifeWay’s Stand Firm devotional magazine for men, Love Like Jesus, and the Covenant Eyes’ blog.

Melody uncovered her husband’s betrayal in 2000, and has lived through the nightmare of having her family torn apart when her children were 5, 4, 2, and 6 months. After walking her own path of healing and wholeness, Melody and her ex-husband Tray were remarried in 2008. Along with Tray, Melody has been devoted to personally coaching and walking with others who are currently living through the pain and trauma of their partner’s betrayal. She is the author of the online course Life Beyond Betrayal (www.lifebeyondbetrayal.com) and is committed to helping betrayed women understand that there is life after their worst day. She facilitates a weekly women’s group, educates students, families and communities on prevention, online digital safety, and healthy sexuality. Melody enjoys singing, leading worship, entertaining friends, and spending time with her family.

The Numbers


NCOSE leads the Coalition to End Sexual Exploitation with over 300 member organizations.


The National Center on Sexual Exploitation has had over 100 policy victories since 2010. Each victory promotes human dignity above exploitation.


NCOSE’s activism campaigns and victories have made headlines around the globe. Averaging 93 mentions per week by media outlets and shows such as Today, CNN, The New York Times, BBC News, USA Today, Fox News and more.



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