June 20, 2017

What you should know about popular app Musical.ly

Thanks to our friends at Protect Young Minds for making us aware of the dangers of the super popular (and pretty fun) app, Musical.ly. This lip-syncing app has become very popular among preteens and teens. But, as with all social media, it comes with its share of dangers.

DANGER #1 on Musically:

It is common to come across pornographic content as users frequently upload nude and semi-nude videos of themselves. If one is just perusing the videos uploaded by all users, it’s highly likely you’ll see one of these videos. One news site in Australia noted that within 30 minutes, they saw dozens of pornographic videos and even after 10 days of flagging them, they remained on the site. When I checked out the app myself, I saw it too.

Suggestions on what to do:

  • You could forbid the use of the app until the app-makers develop a better system for cleaning these up or only allow use on your device when you are monitoring. (Please send the developers a strong-worded complaint! Their emails are here.)

 

  • You could explain to your child that they are not to explore the videos uploaded by everyone, and instead only look at videos uploaded by people they actually know in person or trusted celebrities (or maybe you have to approve everyone on their “friend” list). This is leaving it up to them to follow the rules.

 

  • You can have a talk, actually many talks, about pornography and what to do when they see it and how to make sense of it. I suggest you do this one for sure! For more tools on having these talks check out our Parents Resources page and head over to Protect Young Minds for constant updates.

DANGER #2 on Musically:

Predators know this is a top app among young teenagers and they are setting up shop here. There are many reports of strangers sending unwanted messages, many sexual in nature, to innocent users. I’ve heard stories of predators striking up a friendship with one of their targets on Musically and over time as they become friendlier, enticing the children for explicit videos (this process is called grooming and is a common tactic taking place on many social networking sites).

Suggestions on what to do:

  • Turn on the privacy settings so that strangers are unable to see content posted by you or your child and cannot contact you.

 

  • Consider a rule that your teen can only connect with people they know in real life and with users who you approve of, such as a favorite celebrity or another Musical.ly user you have vetted yourself.

 

  • Talk about online dangers with your teen regularly. This should include tactics used by predators to groom children online.

Be Where Your Kids Are

As a side note, I often recommend to parents that they use the same social media sites as their kids. It is a way to understand how the technology is used and to recognize the dangers for yourself. But, perhaps even better, it is a great way to connect with your child right where they are, experiencing life through their lens. Grandparents should do it, too! I have found that making goofy videos with my teenage sister on Musical.ly is VERY FUN and it brings us closer together, despite our age difference and living in different states. It also makes it easier for me to talk to her about the dangers I see there. I’m not trying to be a spy into her life, but it does also help me see what she’s up to.

Know what your kids are doing online and join them when you can!

 

 

Dawn Hawkins

Senior Vice President & Executive Director

Dawn Hawkins is a passionate defender of human rights who has dedicated her life to fighting against societal harms that threaten the dignity of others. Her energy, creativity and mobilization skills have revived the anti-pornography movement.

As Executive Director of National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCSE), Mrs. Hawkins has developed a national strategy uniting conservative, women’s rights, child advocacy and religious groups, including a bipartisan political leadership, to work together raising awareness of the pandemic of harm from pornography. Her initiatives have led to sweeping policy changes of policies that foster exploitation for targets such as Google, Verizon and the Department of Defense. Through her leadership, NCSE has grown a network reaching hundreds of thousands of people all over the world. Mrs. Hawkins has appeared on many local and national television programs, including Fox & Friends, CNN and Good Morning America. She regularly authors articles and speaks around the country addressing the harms of pornography and all forms of sexual exploitation and what can be done to curb the growing public health crisis resulting from pornography.

Prior to joining NCSE in February 2011, she was a volunteer working for several hours each week for Patrick Trueman, current president and CEO of NCSE. While volunteering for Mr. Trueman, she was employed by a political consulting firm helping businesses and political candidates utilize digital strategies to reach expansive audiences and raise funds. Her expertise in social networking and digital strategies contributed to the successful election of several high-profile candidates in the 2010 election cycle. Dawn has worked on a number of prominent political campaigns, including Marco Rubio for Senate in 2010 and Mitt Romney for President in 2008.

Dawn regularly volunteers for organizations devoted to helping children and the homeless. She is a graduate of Tufts University and currently resides with her husband and two children in Virginia.

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